AdvertisementHomestyleFood + DrinkHealthAdviceReligionTravelTravel BlogGardening BlogPhoto+VideoMaureen FeighanJocelynn BrownHoroscopesEventsDear Abby: Couple feels cast adrift after friend’s diagnosis Dear Abby: My wife and I have dear friends, one of whom has been diagnosed with untreatable cancer. The doctors told him to go home and maximize his quality of life. The first step he took was to completely cut Advice | 10 hours ago Dr. Roach: Excessive parathyroid hormone raises blood calcium level Dear Dr. Roach: I am an 88-year-old man in quite good health. I spend at least 30 hours a week doing yard work. I have had high blood calcium for many years, usually around 10.7. I take pravastatin and triamter Advice | 10 hours ago Dear Abby: Overwhelmed new parents struggle to eat healthy food Food delivery services may be the answer Advice | 2 days ago Dear Abby: Man who won’t fight fair turns arguments into battles Dear Abby: I am in a nearly two-year relationship with a man I love. In so many ways, this is the relationship I’ve always hoped for and, being in my early 30s, I’m feeling ready to settle down. The problem? He Advice | 2 days ago Dr. Roach: Crunching sounds during joint movement not unusual Dear Dr. Roach: I am a 64-year-old female in good health, but after years at a desk I have upper back and shoulder flexibility issues. 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I have been on an every-five-years colonoscopy cycle for the past 20 years (noncancerous polyps wer Advice Dear Abby: Colleague refuses payment for help above and beyond Dear Abby: My colleagues and I were recently notified that our company is closing next month. My work partner and I have collaborated closely for four years, and he’s an expert at the software I need to know to Advice Dear Abby: Son may be hasty in plan to sign up for fatherhood You and your son’s friends should urge him to discuss this with a lawyer before signing ANYTHING, Abby writes Advice Dr. Roach: Chronic cough needs to be investigated for a cause Severe cough like your mother’s deserves a thorough workup Advice Dr. Roach: How long after shingles can a person get vaccinated? The vaccine may be given at any time after the shingles lesions are healed Advice Dear Abby: Dad objects to sharing his part in daughter’s wedding If you are going to have the honor of walking your daughter down the aisle, you will have to figure out a compromise, Abby writes Advice Columnists Ex-Tiger never lost love of a game that didn't always love him back Neal Rubin Creativity in the kitchen: 'There's a lot more thought' in today's designs Maureen Feighan Creating a new beginning in 2021 Jocelynn Brown More ColumnistsDr. Roach: MMR vaccine is critical, but not to help with COVID Dear Dr. Roach: We have friends who got the measles-mumps-rubella vaccine believing it will help with exposure to COVID-19. What are your thoughts on their thinking? Advice Dear Abby: Husband throws a wrench in wife’s exercise plans Dear Abby: As a way to manage my stress and anxiety when COVID hit, I started to exercise. Neither my husband, “Chris,” nor I had ever been into fitness at all. As the months have gone on, I have realized the p Advice Dear Abby: Communication with college friend is a one-way street You can stop sending the “thinking of you” messages because they are not being appreciated, Abby writes Advice Dr. Roach: MMR vaccine is critical, but not to help with COVID The COVID-19 pandemic certainly is having an effect on measles vaccination, Dr. Roach writes Advice Dear Abby: Couple reaches stalemate without intimacy It appears that intimacy is either unimportant to him, or he is finding it elsewhere Advice Dr. Roach: Hiatal hernia surgery called for if meds fail to help Dear Dr. Roach: I am a 72-year-old female with MGUS. I was just diagnosed with an ulcer, Barrett’s esophagus, GERD and a hiatal hernia of 8 cm. 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He asked if I was single and if I had kids. I told him no, and we began having an affair. Advice Dear Abby: Mom is pressured to teach native language to daughter Dear Abby: I came to this country 30 years ago, at 16. My parents were very abusive and neglectful, so my uncle in the U.S. took me in. I have worked with therapists, and my mind is clear about my past. Advice Dr. Roach: Kidneys perform necessary life function Dear Dr. Roach: I am an 83-year-old white male. I am overweight and have high blood pressure and Type 2 diabetes. I recently have been diagnosed with stage 4 kidney failure. I’m told that I have three strikes a Advice Dr. Roach: Medication and lifestyle changes are first treatment for heart Quit smoking and a more plant-based diet and regular, moderate exercise have large benefits in reducing heart (and other) risks Advice Dear Abby: Wife grapples with family’s history of sexual dysfunction Dear Abby: Wife grapples with family’s history of sexual dysfunction, Abby writes Advice Dear Abby: Parents clash over who should discipline kids YOU should be the parent who levies penalties if they misbehave and a punishment is warranted, Abby writes Advice Dr. Roach: Two habits this husband must stop right away That’s not merely unpleasant, it is a possible way of transmitting viruses, Dr. Roach writes Advice Dear Abby: Woman is hurt to be kept at arm’s length by sister You will be hurt less once you accept that your fantasy of closeness with her will never happen, Abby writes Advice Dr. Roach: Incorrect vaccine injection can cause bursa injury Shoulder Injury Related to Vaccine Administration happens when the vaccine is injected too deep in the shoulder Advice Dear Abby: New start to a new year brings hope for better days Welcome to 2021! 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I thought kidneys filtered out serum calcium, meaning calcium intake causes calcium oxalate stones. As someone who suffered fro Advice Dear Abby: Discussing sex life with ex is the final straw for wife Dear Abby: I have been married for 19 years now. A few years back, I came to know about my husband’s platonic relationship with his old girlfriend. She lives in a different state and is married. Advice Dr. Roach: Time and effort needed to treat intermittent explosive disorder The critical first step in successful treatment, and often the hardest, is to recognize you have a problem Advice Dear Abby: Couple with bright future get on each other’s nerves How do you know when to stop trying and let go of a relationship? Advice Share your feedback to help improve our site experience!