Paying it forward for the holidays
Lisa Ludwinski expects to sell more pie at her Detroit bakery during the holiday season, and not just to people enjoying it themselves. She anticipates that customers will buy pieces of pie for strangers through the shop’s “Pie-it-Forward” program.
Ludwinski, owner of Sister Pie, launched the program last fall. Shoppers buy a coupon for a free slice of a pie, and the coupons get hung on a wall. Anyone who visits can take one down to get some pie.
“It’s a way to provide pie for a variety of people — people who are hungry or people who have never been to our pie shop before,” said Ludwinski, whose specialties include Salted Maple and Cranberry Crumble.
Although the program runs year-round, Ludwinski has found that customers are more enthusiastic about it during the holidays.
Pay-it-forward programs seem to gain momentum around Christmas. Customers at Starbucks and Dunkin’ Donuts around the country have made headlines in recent Decembers by buying coffee for the person behind them in line — leading to chains of hundreds of free drinks in streaks that can last for hours.
Most people — even those who don’t donate to charity — value generosity, and paying for someone’s coffee is an easy way to express that, said Patricia Snell Herzog, an assistant professor of sociology and criminal justice at the University of Arkansas in Fayetteville who co-authored “American Generosity: Who Gives and Why” (Oxford University Press, 2016).
“It just makes you feel good,” she said. “It’s like smiling at someone. You’re passing on visible goodness.”
Also, nobody wants to be the person who breaks the chain, she said.
“It’s put right in front of you. This person in line is being really generous. It makes you feel called to respond,” she said.
MaryJo Dunn was amazed when an anonymous gift that she made in honor of her late son became a pay-it-forward phenomenon at the First and Last Tavern in Glastonbury, Connecticut. On Feb. 20, what would have been Luke’s second birthday, Dunn bought a gift card and asked the manager to give it, along with a note explaining the date’s significance, to a family having lunch at the restaurant.
The family that was chosen was celebrating their son’s birthday; they insisted on reloading the card and giving it to another family, said Molly Shanahan, the restaurant’s creative director. Diners continued to load the card through the next day.
“It took off,” said Shanahan. “It created this energy. It inspired people. It was a flame that ignited the whole place.”
For Dunn, whose son died of cancer in 2015, the outpouring made a bad day more bearable. She and her husband, Shane, routinely buy coffee and doughnuts for others and give the recipients printed cards asking them to “pay it forward in memory of Luke.” They find that these small gifts not only keep Luke’s memory alive but inspire others to perform “random acts of kindness,” she said. “We are so happy that people continue to do this. It definitely lightens our hearts.”
Mason Wartman also has seen how powerful pay-it-forward opportunities can be. He has given away more than 70,000 slices of pizza paid for by the customers of his Philadelphia restaurant, Rosa’s Fresh Pizza.
The effort started a couple of years ago when a customer learned that homeless people occasionally visited the eatery, which sells pizza for $1 a slice. The customer offered to pay in advance for a slice to be given to someone in need. He also told Wartman about an Italian custom called “caffe sospeso,” or suspended coffee: Someone who has had good fortune pays for an extra cup of coffee to be given later to someone down on his luck.
Wartman decided to keep track of the prepaid slices with sticky notes, which soon covered the walls of his restaurant. After the pay-it-forward program was featured on local and national media, the sticky notes became unwieldy and Wartman created a button on the cash register to record the free slices.
Customers like the program because they can see it helping others, he said.
“It’s very transparent,” he said. “My employees never ask, would you like to donate today? It’s just out there. Everyone knows what we do.”